Writing
Scattered notes from things I built, measured, broke, or eventually understood.
Does it matter whether or not you believe in it?
Spirituality is a touchy subject to many. Either it’s too personal, or it’s mumbo jumbo. Some might not even want to talk about the…
Så kom våren.
Så kom våren med gråtande pollenallergiker och skadegladsskrattande pollenallergikerhatare. Med ljuva fågelsånger och önskan om att…
Tune your inner voice to optimism.
Fine tune the inner narrative you’ve got. Tune it to be nice to you, and make it work in your favour. It’ll be so much easier to be you if…
Micro and Macro
In a really simple world, there are two perspectives. Those perspectives dominate how we do things. Either, we take a micro perspective, or…
More options isn’t always good for you.
More options isn’t always good for you. Actually, there are many situations in which choices will be of disservice rather than joy.
Heartpouring.
Pouring your heart out is an art form. Make sure to practice it properly and frequently not to become stiff and lose the feeling for it.
trust.
To build trust, one needs a lot more than facts. That’s been known for quite some time now, yet it isn’t as widely used as it should be.
Recommending something to someone isn’t enough to get them to accept the invitation of doing.
If you’re ever in a position where you want to call for action, that’s important to remember. The recommendation itself isn’t going to be…
A hug that
Give someone a hug today. Not one of those side facing, awkward, old.man type of hugs. A proper hug. A significant hug. A hug that matters.
Kramar.
När allt bara tystnar, stannar och slutar. Känner du igen den känslan? Som att hålla andan under vattnet och se luftbubblorna vallfärda…
Bollar i l
Att ha många bollar i luften är ingenting man tycker om. De som “gillar att ha många bollar i luften” har lärt sig det av en kultur som…
How I add routines.
I have, as many other people have, been told that it takes 21 days to add a routine. It’s almost completely horse shit.
ecisions that make decisions.
Decisions are exhausting, when we take the time to make them properly. That’s why you should avoid them as far as you can.
Success.
Success is completely and always a matter of perspective, because success is relative. If not relative to your own performance, then to…
Different days are for different needs.
Sometimes you need to let go of your imagined truth. Of the structures that you’ve set up for yourself.
Det går att skapa den smärta som förändring behöver.
Förändring kommer sällan av förnöjdhet eller lugn. Fredstider behöver inte fredsavtal.
Låt folk prata färdigt, även om du vet vad de ska säga.
Inte sällan fyller jag i mina samtalspartners meningar. Färdigställer tankar åt dem. Ofta händer det även mig, att bli ifylld.
Elsparkcyklar.
Du som varit i en stad det senaste halvåret har säker märkt att vi har fått en invasion av eldrivna sparkcyklar. (Har du inte märkt det så…
At times, we sit on information, knowledge or experience that we’d like to share with others.
At times, we need to start somewhere else, at least if we can do so. At times, people need to be given what they want instead of what they…
I princip vilken människa som helst är idag är inom räckhåll för dig.
Frågan är inte längre hur du ska få kontakt med människor. Frågan är vem du ska ta kontakt med.
Creativity starts with a question.
Being creative isn’t a gift. It’s a process, and a hard one.
Katalysatorbeteenden
Igår pekade en vän ut ett beteende i mig som var otroligt nyttigt att få upp ögonen för. Jag har i det senaste agerat katalysator för alla…
Spring som en tjej.
Spring.
Find the place to put your tired.
It’s not about not feeling the cold of a cold shower in the morning. Neither is it about working against it. It’s about knowing where to…